"IT'S MY MONEY. AND I WANT IT NOW!" - By Minister Mary Edwards
A few days ago God spoke to my heart these words:Taking It To Another Level - By Minister Mary Edwards
Changes in technology, and
particularly information technologies, are making educated and skilled
labor more valuable, and unskilled labor less so. More stress needs to
be put on upgrading the capacity to learn. Simply put, literacy has
become more critical than ever before. Even as I type this document, I
can see how the computer has replaced one of my favorite tools: the
typewriter. Gone are the days of the correction tapes once used to
erase errors. Now we simply use the delete key. Someone was thinking.
Someone was writing manuals. And many more
people need to know how to read them.
According to a
National Endowment for the Arts survey released on July 8, 2004,
"Literary reading is in dramatic
decline with fewer then half of Americans now reading literature."
Reading
at Risk: A Survey of
Literary Reading in America reports drops in all
groups studied, with the steepest rate of decline. 28% -
occurring
in the youngest age groups. We are living in a knowledge-based economy.
These are frightening reports.
Sixty years ago, at the age of
8, the
book bug bit me. I'm happy to report that I've never recovered. For the
past 30 plus years, both reading and writing have
been critical to my leadership roles among writers and widows.
I am determined to take my passion to another level in this
knowledge-based economy. My goals are to motivate and encourage
children not to just read and write, but to WRITE BOOKS.
In my third grade,
the teacher gave the class a writing assignment: Write about a
dog that got lost and found. We were to use our creative imaginations.
I finished quickly. The teacher thought I was having trouble. She was
surprised when I told her that I was finished. After reading my paper,
she said these unforgettable words, "My, you have a creative
imagination. And you write so fast."
Barely in my teens, I
lost my
virginity and became pregnant. Everyone was shocked. "What a shame.
You are an honor roll student. Now, all you will be is just another
negative welfare statistic," said the school
officials. My thought was, "No. I'm better than that."
At that point, I began writing
the
script for my life - not the way it was, but the way I wanted it to be.
I graduated with honors at the age of 16, with a three-year-old son.
Years went by. There were many
detours,
but I kept writing, editing the script along the way.
After a failed, 20-year first
marriage,
I was blessed in 1982 to marry the late Rev. Eddie K. Edwards, founder
of Joy of Jesus Ministries on the east side of Detroit. The ministry
was founded in 1976. Their mission was to reach out to help develop
underprivileged youth into responsible citizens who could make a
meaningful contribution to society.
The ministry was five years
old when Rev.
Edwards and I married. Joy of Jesus' growth
escalated. I continued to write, but now it was to raise monies for the
ministry as Development Director. Millions of dollars were raised to
execute various programs throughout the Ravendale community where we
lived and worked. We were honored with the 107th
Point of Light Award from former President George W. Bush, Sr. for our
youth and community development work.
In 1990, I wrote the proposal
that
gained us a $50,000 Family Approach to Crime and Treatment (F.A.C.T.)
grant from United Community Services to start our family life center.
UCS honored us as their most distinguished program out of 10 who were
funded. Thus, we were awarded another $50,000 to carry out a second
successful year. I served as the initial director of this program.
In 1998, I retired
from Joy
of Jesus. Since then, I've written three books and my autobiography,
Born Grown, founded a writers' guild, and launched a widows' ministry.
In 2004, my story
about being
a teen mother,
never being on welfare, and receiving numerous awards, appeared in the
first Chicken Soup for
the African American Soul.
I was the only Detroiter in the book. So, where do I go from here?
As I look back over the years, I see how
writing has had a powerful impact on my life. When I'm asked, "How
did you manage to overcome the many obstacles associated with being a
teen mother?" I share how I made a decision not to accept the
doomsday prophecy about being a negative welfare
statistic. Instead, I wrote a positive vision for my life,
which helped build my self esteem and enabled me to see the light at
the end of the tunnel. Reading books from the library gave me the
insight I needed to see an alternative lifestyle to the life I was
living.
Understanding the importance
of reading
and writing, I want to work with schools and other youth
organization. My attention would also be directed towards teen girls
and teen mothers.
My eight-year-old
granddaughter Angel has
just finished her first book, Angel
Food For Thought.
Recently,
a door of opportunity has been opened for us to be involved in a
reading project at numerous elementary schools in Southfield, Michigan.
I strongly believe that after reading to these children, they will be
inspired, motivated, and eager to write a book.
I
welcome the
opportunity to continue, as well as expand, this reading program,
mentor these young writers, and encourage them to write books,
thereby equipping them for
more successful lives in the years to
come.